How Bestiemony® Was Born: A Wild Weekend, a Vow, and a Trademarked Friendship Ceremony
🎙 Episode 1: 🎙 How Bestiemony® Was Born: A Wild Weekend, a Vow, and a Trademarked Friendship Ceremony
Hosts: Jennifer Hobbs & Jackie Schroeder
Podcast: Slightly Unsupervised
In the very first episode of Slightly Unsupervised, best friends Jennifer and Jackie share the hilarious, emotional, and very real origin story of Bestiemony®—the trademarked ceremony that celebrates the most underrated love story: ride-or-die friendship.
In This Episode:
- Growing up in the '80s and stealing mom’s car [05:10]
- The 15-year gap that almost ended it all—and how they reconnected [12:40]
- Saying vows to each other and filming real Bestiemony® stories [21:00]
- Why friendship deserves a seat at the commitment table [29:15]
Whether you've had the same best friend since 7th grade or you're still waiting to find your person, this episode will make you laugh, cry, and rethink everything you thought you knew about platonic love.
🎁 Bonus Segment: Don’t miss “Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions” at the end—Jen and Jackie spill secrets about group chat savagery, crying at movies, and their own friendship quirks.
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🎶 Music Credit
"Definition of a Best Friend" performed by Brooke August — the perfect anthem for sealing this episode’s message on the joy and depth of friendship. Follow her on YouTube to catch more of her music and heartfelt lyrics: Definition Of A Best Friend — Brooke August (official)
Thanks to Brooke for lending her beautiful voice to close out the show. Be sure to check out her YouTube channel for more great music!
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Jennifer: Hey there, I'm Jennifer.
Jackie: And I'm Jackie.
Jennifer: And welcome to Slightly Unsupervised for best friends, business partners, and the chaos behind festivity, a ceremony we created to celebrate the kind of soulmates who don't come with a marathon.
Jackie: This podcast is all about that friendship energy. The deep stuff, the messy stuff, and the laugh to you snort stuff.
Jennifer: So whether you're driving, folding laundry, or hiding in the car for some peace and quiet, you're in good company. Let's get slightly sun-supervised. So why are we doing this podcast? Because friendship is the most underrated love story out there.
Jackie: We're here to tell the stories that don't always get told. The wild, beautiful, loyal, complicated, hilarious magic of the best friend love.
Jennifer: Every week we'll talk about real friendship stuff, interview besties, and give a front row seat of how powerful it is when women support women. So the testimony ceremony that we are talking about is something that we created out of nothing, actually. I have a wedding chapel in Nashville, Tennessee, Rhinestone Wedding Chapel. And there was a time when I moved here when all my friends came to see me. We have five best friends, we're one of five or group of five that they were coming out to see me.
Jennifer: And I was like, oh, I want to show my chapel. How can we do something that incorporates them? We're all married, so we can't get married. So I came up with this whole concept of why not have a ceremony um sort of like a marriage, but not a marriage marriage. And you basically commit and do the same thing you do in a ceremony for a wedding and write vows to each other, but just more like a testimony of just what you mean to me as my friend, as my best friend, and celebrate the one thing that I think is the most underrated relationship that we have, and particularly with girls, is that our besties are such a huge important person in our life.
Jennifer: And we don't spend enough time really celebrating that relationship. I think everybody thinks that I've told my best friend I love them and they know, and I'm not sure that you do. And I know that Jackie and I have actually done a filming and done best of monies. We have a YouTube channel with all of our stories. We we actually brought in eight cents of women and actually took our ceremony, put it to the test to see if it was something that was powerful and that was moving and that needed to be in this world.
Jennifer: So I spent a lot of money and had a production crew come in here and we put an ad out for some besties to interview that we could get their backstory and hear about their for their relationship and how they became friends and then let them have a moment to spend, which is the ceremonial part of it, to really sit down and tell each other what how much they love each other. And so we did that and we had a film crew here, and Jackie and I, of course, went first because it's it was our idea. She's helped me all along the way.
Jennifer: The first thing I had to do was get it trademarked. And if you've done anything with trademarking, you'll know that that is a process in itself. It is not overnight. There's a lot of work to be done while you're getting trademarked. It's a lot of process to finish it once you have gotten your trademark. So we spent a good part of a year um just getting ready to do a bestimony and to dream up this concept of how this works and how it looks. So we spent a lot of time with that, a lot of time on logos, a lot of time on how it looks, um, what it means, how it feels.
Jennifer: And I didn't release it into the public space until after we did the filming. And already we did put it out there. Already we have people copying us. So you know it's a good idea when people start copying you right away, that you have a pretty good idea in the world. So there may be other people that do this at their chapels, but I'm letting you know right now. Jackie and I were the original ones. We're the ones that came up with this and we're the ones that introduced it. And it's an interesting thing that nobody else ever thought about that.
Jennifer: Um and I wouldn't have thought about it either, except I owned a chapel and you guys were coming. So it was like, well, how do we celebrate? How do we do something fun at my chapel with my best friends? And that is how this thing all came to be. And so we did do a ceremony on Jackie and I, as I said, and she was here. So, and you know, when you do sit down and you really get into your feelers and you really look at your best friend and you really think about all the things you've been through, all the tough times you've had, what they when they showed up for you, when they've pushed you, when they've pulled you back, when they've held your hand, when they've smacked you across the top of your head to get to think about what you're doing.
Jennifer: All of those things are so important. And then you sit down and tell each other. I think that there's things that Jack told me that I didn't know that she thought or thought about. So always makes me cry. You're okay. I know.
Jackie: That's what this is about.
Jennifer: Yeah, it's it's something you haven't done it. It's uh it's something to really think about doing because these people are these women. I only use the women's side of this for besties because I don't know men that call each other besties. I think they call each other bros and best friends and brothers, but I'm not sure besties is something that you'll hear a man say about his best friend. You know, I think that's kind of what it is. Even though it's open to anybody that's best friends with anybody, I just refer it more in the female world just because besties is a is a girl, is a word that I think us girls use to describe each other as best friends.
Jennifer: We called each other besties, you know. Jackie and I are 55 years old, so we are not spring chickens, we would say. We're not even middle age. I don't know if you know that, but middle age right now, I just read an article as 38 years old. That's middle age.
Jackie: Well, I'm 55, but I'm 40, right?
Jennifer: What'd that say now? 55 is the new 40. Yes. But middle age, we were in middle age at 30 years, 38 years old, which is two years ago, which is you know, a few years back. So um, I think my son's coming up into middle age, you know. He's the next one to hit it. So yeah, my daughter. Yeah, I think 38. We're still pretty good years. 55 is starting to feel a little more like 55. 55. Yeah.
Jackie: Yeah, definitely.
Jennifer: We'll talk about that, I'm sure, at some point in this pod in this podcast series that we'll be doing that as you age things change for you and how that feels, and um, even the difference in your friendships between the age groups of what you're at. So, anyways, that's how bestimony came about. It's a beautiful experience. We have been doing them at the chapel now, and you know, we'll be doing and we did one yesterday, we're gonna do a couple more this week. So it's a thing, and it's a beautiful experience to have with your best friend and to sit down really and get into your feelers with them.
Jennifer: And and you know, we have a video that will never go away. It's I'm actually on the internet, so it's really never gonna go away that we can always refer back to. It's always nice. Sometimes I go back and listen to it because I'm doing something or I'm thinking about something, and I I hit play on my computer just to get back into that mode and listen to it. And it's a beautiful thing that I have. I have this beautiful thing that my best friend said about me. It's recorded, you know, it's available to me at any time.
Jennifer: And what a great pick me up when you need it. Just even if I, you know, don't call you or I haven't seen you or it's the middle of the night and you're busy or whatever. You know, I can always go back and say, say that again, what'd you say? Because sometimes we forget about that stuff. So just want to talk a little bit about the day because we did a big filming thing and there was uh eight sets of women that came through here that we didn't know. I didn't know. I did do kind of a precursor interview with them and kind of told them about what was coming on, and and they came in good faith.
Jennifer: They came from Pennsylvania, they came from New York, they came from Indiana, they drove in to do this, and they wanted to tell their story, they wanted to be part of that. And it was a day full of just a lot of love and a lot of women in one area. And I know for me, most of those women I have kept in contact with were Facebook friends or Instagram friends. I feel like I know them, maybe not in that way, but I know their friendship and I know that they love their best friend the way I love my best friend.
Jennifer: And it's kind of a bonding experience to sit with women and be in that moment. What so we did our best money, Jack, and you said some beautiful things to me, and I'll I'll always treasure that for sure for the rest of my life. And then I got to say some things to you. Do you feel like that's sort of like a treasure that you get to keep for the rest of your life now, too?
Jackie: Yeah, definitely. I mean, I do like you said, I I play my Mac all the time and watch we actually talked with each other too ahead of time and telling our backstory, which that was interesting too, because you forget about some things when someone brings something up, which brought up memories again, like, oh, I forgot about that. Oh my gosh, that's right. And then sitting down and actually explaining how we felt. That was uh emotional experience and a happy experience because there are things I don't think I ever told you that you've finally heard me say, right, in between anything in our entire life.
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Jackie: Because I mean when we're younger, there's things we wouldn't say to each other because we're in our 20s, you just don't say those things to your friends, and then you know, in our 30s, we were in a different situation, 40s, and then now that we're 50s, I feel like we're more open, we're more mature, we don't have a problem s sharing our feelings. Like you aren't gonna think I'm strange by saying I love you so much.
Jennifer: You're exactly, you know. That's true. And I think too, as we get older, we realize we're not here forever.
Jackie: Right.
Jennifer: And that you better get that in. You better make sure they know because I may not get that my opportunity to tell you that again in some part of my life that you know, if something happens, I want you to know that's how I felt.
Jackie: Right.
Jennifer: Which is a beautiful thing. I mean, I think that when you do a ceremony, that's the the focus. When you really get into it's pretty emotional. It's like, wow, I mean, this person really has been by my side through so much of my life experiences that really you can't replace. Jackie and I both talked about the fact that we we grew up in the 80s, which we're super excited about as time has evolved. That those were some really, really good years to be a teenager and to have the independence has it made us more independent.
Jackie: Yeah, because we we had to figure things out. We did not get coddled. We didn't have cell phones. We came home when street lights came on. That's right.
Jennifer: But we were a generation left to to our own devices and to find our own way in so many ways. That one lady that does all the videos. Oh, I love her about the 80s, about what we our generation, our generation is when she's talking, and I'm pretty sure that anybody that's a Gen X as well will definitely say absolutely 100% that is true. All of it happened. That we were not, we were not a coddled group. We were a figure it out, you should be seen and not heard. I remember that being said a lot to us.
Jennifer: So we should be seen but not heard.
Jackie: You don't get in your parents' conversations. You say parents were in one room and the kids were in another room. Now the kids are right there. It's a different, you know, yeah, it doesn't work that way anymore.
Jennifer: We yeah, we were left to survive, but let's talk about the summers when we were kids. We were there by ourselves. I mean, there was no babysitters.
Jackie: Latchkey, everybody was a latch key kid back then.
Jennifer: Everybody.
Jackie: We all came home, parents were working, that's how it was. Yeah. You were making a living. You went to school in the morning, you had a bowl of cereal, you made your own lunch. But if you're, I mean, there's some that were lucky enough. Their parents did it for them.
Jennifer: I can think of one person um in my friend groups whose mom was a stay-at-home mom.
Jackie: Just one, right?
Jennifer: Yep. She was the epitome of some mom at home.
Jackie: And we're a small mountain community.
Jennifer: Yeah.
Jackie: And we range from what, 30 mile radius?
Jennifer: We grew up in California, Southern California Mountains. I moved up to those mountains when I was like 12 years old, seventh grade. When did you move up? Uh fourth grade. Fourth grade.
Jackie: Fourth grade. So I was starting in elementary school.
Jennifer: And the beautiful thing about that mountain, too, that should be noted is that um when we say we have five best friends, we were all from that mountain. That mountain, that grade, they're still my best friends from high school, solid best friends, um, spread over 30 miles of mountain roads.
Jackie: Hey, I remember being in, I think I was maybe in six, my brothers would be fifth and fourth. And we walked miles down to the lake. It took two dollars, got in the day at the lake where our parents were working and they were down the hill. We're we're talking uh 45 minutes away from home. And we'd have to walk back home. These days, that wouldn't no.
Jennifer: No, oh my gosh, no. Could you picture that? No, Bill. We were left to ourselves, like at very young ages to figure it out. And we figured it out. I shared something with you recently that one of our friends posted on Facebook. It's like she was talking to the baby boomers and the Gen Z and the Millennials or whatever. And she's like, We see you, Gen X. Yeah, we see you. We're afraid of you guys. You guys are so resourceful and so able to take care of yourselves, and you don't take anybody's crap because there's an apocalypse coming to you.
Jennifer: It wasn't something that we ever felt we were so god. We just assumed that's the way life went.
Jackie: I didn't think I was being deprived, I didn't think that my parents were treating me bad, or no, that's just how everybody was. It was the way we said one friend that her mom was a stay-home mom, that every she did everything for them. None of us got that at the time. But we had to get our own rights to get if we were in sports. Yeah, you did. We had to figure it out where other parents or you get a ride to do that type of thing. It wasn't where your parents took you to every little thing and picked you up and brought you home and uh were at every game.
Jennifer: But that's how we met too. We're this we're the same grade. We were friends. I started seventh grade, so we're friends since seventh grade. Eighth grade. Eighth grade graduation. I there's a picture of you got you with us in eighth grade graduation.
Jackie: So we had all mutual friends and we hung out. We did have lunch, we'd sit together at lunch. It wasn't like you and I just like one-on-one talking.
Jennifer: Exactly. But then I got a job by my house. By her house. Um, we lived in a mountain, as we said, that we have to ride the buses. That's how the everybody got around. Just it was the way it was in the 80s as well. I mean, you had to use mass transit to get around.
Jackie: That was a goodness for school buses helped us. It helped us to a friend's house after school, but then you had to figure out how to get back home.
Jennifer: But we used it to our advantage, right? Yep. This is how we became really good friends is that I rode her bus and I'm sure we just sat together on the bus and we were friends. And I think I got off the next exit after you. I think I got down at the market before I walked back to my job.
Jackie: So And I think eventually I started getting off with you and talking to you. We'd walk and then I'd head back home. Head back because it wasn't very far. So getting closer and closer that way.
Jennifer: Exactly. And then one night I was like, Hey, do you want to go out? And she's like, Yeah. Um, I said, Okay, I'll pick you up. So I did go to my house and I must have got back to my house. I don't know where my mom was. I for some reason my mom was not there that weekend. She may have had something going on because the rest of the weekend I don't think she was there. But, anyways, I took her little car and went over to pick up Jackie at her house. Um, and she had a little like 14 Porsche, I think those were called.
Jennifer: Orange. Orange. That's your mom's, yeah.
Jackie: So I picked up we were only 15 years old. We weren't even old enough to drive yet. Yes, again, we're living in a mountains community and it's snowing and icy out. Oh, yes. Yes, these are some stables that are. And it's a Porsche that's low to the ground. And on top of it, when I get in the car, all you hear is Well, it didn't have windshield wipers.
Jennifer: The the actual wipers on the wind, what those right the windshield wipers up. There was one on the driver's side. I think the passenger side was gone. Nobody put it back on there. So I had turned the windshield wiper lanes on, and it was like because it and I didn't really think anything about it, you know, and you're not we didn't have a license. It wasn't like a it was a stick.
Jackie: Oh yeah, and we both didn't know how to drive a stick.
Jennifer: Yeah. So I stole my car, drove it to Jackie's house in the sleet and snow. To get to a party. To get to a well, no, we think we went to high school first, but then we went to a party. But I think there's the start of this friendship. That's what it started. This is like we are up for an adventure.
Jackie: Oh, we knew we were in trouble, or at least our parents did.
Jennifer: We never did get caught stealing that car.
Jackie: Well, except when we did do our ceremonial or uh best bestie friends. Oh, best funny ceremony. Kind of put the story out there now.
Jennifer: Well, it's like 50 years later.
Jackie: We can't really can't get in trouble.
Jennifer: But yeah, so that's the start of our friendship. And I think that if we really think about our friendship and why we connect so much, her and I is that we are really people that are kind of willing to go um on an adventure and just whatever comes up, comes up. We don't have a lot of like we weren't scared.
Jackie: We weren't, yeah, we weren't scared, we weren't afraid we'd be in trouble. I don't know why we've I guess because we always we took care of ourselves. We just figured everything out and it just worked out. I don't know if it's because we where we lived also, right? The small community, things were a little different. I mean, it we didn't live in a big city, it could be different for people in a big city at that time. True. But I mean, for us, it was pretty much just you just did what you had to do to get where you wanted to go.
Jackie: It's true. There wasn't we were smart about it, I guess, too. We were we didn't get caught.
Jennifer: Jinx. Yeah, I'm gonna tell you probably a lot of stories is our podcast get podcast about being friends and our relationship, but also other people's relationship because there's so many beautiful relationships in the world with women and how they connect and why they connect. And I think that's an important thing to think about is like what makes somebody a connection for you and not some other person, like you know what I mean? Like we connect so deeply on like adventure and taking chances and just having you know a just like this, like your whole the whole testimony, right?
Jackie: I mean, when you started this and asked me, I just like, yeah, we did, and I did. I was ready and it was perfect, and it's been a ride, it's been fun. It has been fun, but that's you know, kind of see now how we started. We were young, but we'll get more into all of it as we go. Sure. But that was great.
Jennifer: It's a good thing to know about us is that if you say, you know, you tune took a chance or you tune did that, well, that's what we've been doing our whole lives.
Jackie: We've always jumped in. Oh, yeah.
Jennifer: If you ask our parents, full throttle, two feet in.
Jackie: Yeah, yes.
Jennifer: I think more so you and I too. Yeah, we're not as I don't know why we don't have that gene that says, Oh, that's probably not a good idea. Let's not do that.
Jackie: Yeah, we're both friends. It would be like, oh, you know, they have that little saying, Who's the friend that's oh, let's do that? Oh, I'll do it with you. No, we're both like, hey, let's do that. But we have a each have a different plan, and it's worse than the other, but let's go. Let's do it, let's make it more exciting.
Jennifer: Yes, you only live once. Yeah. Because you know, everybody has friends, everybody has well, you know, multiple friends. There must be multiple friends, and you're like, Oh, I would never ask that friend to do it. They would never do it, right? Yeah, exactly. Know that there's like your friends are like, never gonna go, not gonna happen. It's don't ask, don't buy it. Like they're a friend. So I would say that our our rarest thing of us being friends that's between just the two of us is we're up for an adventure, always always.
Jennifer: And we had some really bad ideas. Hey, but we're still here to talk about it, that's right, and to start testimonies. That's right. So, and this podcast is supervised. And I want to make sure that you understand when we say slightly unsupervised, it's a nod to the way we grew up, it's also a nod to girls getting together and being besties. That you know, where you're free, you don't have all these rules. That's why no judgment. The girls' weekends are so important that for just maybe as even as you grow and you have kids and everything for give me a weekend where it's just slightly unsupervised.
Jennifer: Just let me be. Let me go back to who I was, let me remember who that that person was that was fun, that was adventurous, that would do anything. And and then, you know, we sometimes just go back to our regular lives and get back into it. But slightly unsupervised is this concept of best friends, why we've done this, and this is why we named it that, because we want to make sure that everybody knows when we talk, we're talking right from our hearts, and we're not um we're not worried about what we say.
Jennifer: That, you know, we've we've already prepared our parents for all the bad things we've done. Hopefully they will.
Jackie: It's all right. I don't think I'm sure they we just don't know their stories.
Jennifer: Yes. So we want to end this episode. We have this thing that we're gonna end our every episode, our episodes on called Rapid Fire Bestie Questions. And we will take a shot. One will say it, and the other one will say we've got some questions here, and then we'll give our answers and then end it that way. But it's also a great way for us to really again try to get to know each other things we may not even know. We'll probably get them know something about each other from just doing these. So I'll go first.
Jennifer: Okay. Who apologizes first?
Jackie: Do either of us apologize first? Do best friends apologize?
Jennifer: I think we just I think we just figure it's like they're sorry.
Jackie: So we start talking.
Jennifer: I'm sure she's sorry she said that to me. Or I think if you did, I think honestly, have we ever really apologized? I think it's been that way. I think it's just always but I would.
Jackie: I mean, I'm gonna say that if now maturity-wise in our 50s.
Jennifer: Yeah. No, when we get mad when we're younger, I think we just got over it for a few minutes, and then we're like, okay, over it. Okay.
Jackie: All right. Okay. So who's the more dramatic one? Now dramatic, are we talking like drama queen, or are we talking like just always upset about everything?
Jennifer: I guess Does that make sense? Yeah. I think the more dramatic one would be the one that's more like always upset about things. Or and I don't think that I don't think we're either one of them.
Jackie: I don't think either of us. Yeah, I don't think that would be a question for another another uh bestie duo.
Jennifer: Yeah. I think that we don't we're not very dramatic. And that's a good thing. Like we were just cleaning out something today, and there were some spiders. It's like, oh, there's a spider, and we're squishing it. Like what we were talking about somebody that Jackie knows that's super, you know, dramatic about that.
Jackie: And it's like, and maybe it's just won't even kill it herself. You literally have to kill it. She will sit there and scream until someone comes and does it, right? And she trained her daughters to be the same way.
Jennifer: Yeah.
Jackie: Which is that's also maybe because we have sons.
Jennifer: True. You know, but we also grew up in a mountain and we also deal with that. Yes. No one's coming to squish the thing. Either kill it or be killed. True. That's what I actually happened. Okay. All right. Who's more likely to cancel plans last minute if we do that either?
Jackie: These are interesting questions that they gave us. I think we pretty much stick it. We're we're good. There's other that I could call out on that. Sure. That I could call ahead of time who's gonna who it's gonna be. Right, right. Uh but I think usually if me and you make plans, we try to stick to it. Even B and you in Nashville, me in California. Right.
Jennifer: We make it work. Yeah. We're like, I mean, they're here in the league way too. Like if you call and you're like, oh, there's something coming up. Oh yeah, whenever you're ready. Like, and I think that, you know, in a best friend world and a and a friend world, you have to be pretty flexible with that because things come up and be like, oh yeah, don't worry about it. Come when you can. And we always make good on that. And I think that's important to say that if you're good at counsel or you can't do something, or something comes up, to be mindful and be like, oh yeah, totally.
Jennifer: We'll figure it out whenever you can, and that's and I think that's how we are.
Jackie: So that's why we really don't notice that anyone that we do it to each other. Who cries first at movies?
Jennifer: Jen, I'm sure. I cry at everything. I'm crying at best of it. I've cried during this podcast. Oh my goodness. I will cry. I don't know why. If you come to a testimony with us, which we hope you do at some point for your cry. I will cry during your ceremony. Yes. And I apologize for that. All right. Who's a better gift giver? Jackie. Yes, that's it. I admit I enjoy gift giving.
Jackie: I'd rather give than receive. Yes, that is me.
Jennifer: But you are in there, but I like to think it out.
Jackie: Yes.
Jennifer: But it's like our best friend group. Like Jackie takes charge. If someone's on the birthday's coming up, we gotta do this. We always put on input in. Remember when you were gonna get Michelle Flowers on a standard.
Jackie: We know what that girl likes to be. Corona. She was a happy camper. She was a happy camper. She was, we know.
Jennifer: And that's I think that's a beautiful thing too, is to really like pay attention to somebody. To be a great gift giver, you really need to pay attention to what they like. You know what I mean? To say that would be a great gift for them because they'll really enjoy that, you know. So Jackie is definitely a better gift giver. I enjoy it. All right, who's more savage in the group text?
Jackie: I would say you. Yeah, you're the most savage.
Jennifer: Savage.
Jackie: Yeah, you do. I do. Yeah. Like I'm my more like, oh, it was like gonna hurt their feelings. I'm like, da da da. Oh, and then it's like take it away, and you're going. Is it coming? No, no, I shouldn't say that. Finally, okay.
Jennifer: Like, you're gonna re move on a thought. I don't think I'm that.
Jackie: I'm sure. I think you're the most savage between the two of us. I think even with the five best friends, you're probably the most savage.
Jennifer: I think you and I, I will say that in our group saying you and I send the most memes. We are the most like thoughtful about our friendships. It's either you posting one that you found or I posting one that I found. Like you and I are better at that. The others like enjoy it and they're they're happy and they like it.
SPEAKER_00: Um, today was all about the why behind Besti Moni and the deep roots of our friendship. We shared the story of how Besti Moni was born from an idea sparked by a weekend with our best friends to a heartfelt ceremony honoring friendship as the most underrated love story out there. We walked through uh what it's like to truly see your best friend, tell her what she means to you, and celebrate that bond in a way the world doesn't always give space for. We also took a trip down memory lane from our wild mount Mountaintown adventures to stealing our mom's cars and somehow surviving it all.
SPEAKER_00: At the heart of it, what's made our friendship last is that we've always been up for the ride. Two feet in, slightly unsuper unsupervised. So if you're out there and you've got a bestie who's been your person through it all, uh don't wait. Celebrate them. Tell them. Because those words matter. And uh and trust us, you'll want to be able to hit play on that love whenever you need it. We're so glad you came on this first ride with us. The laughs, the tears, the memories. This is what slightly unsupervised is all about.
SPEAKER_00: Until next time, stay wild, stay connected, and stay just a little bit unsupervised.
Jennifer: If this episode hit you in the feels or made you laugh way too hard, we consider that a win.
Jackie: Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your ride or die. And when you're ready to make your friendship official, book your pestimony at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com.
Jennifer: Because the best love stories don't always come with a ring.
Song: Reuniting's like we've never been apart, and every single time we're out of iron heart to heart.
Song: There's not enough works to display, but you made a mic enough to dance and like it.
Song: I'll bottom bacon that you're right.
Song: It's good to do it for everything.
Song: We'll write in a story. Every day we'll keep on going every day.
Song: It's good.
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